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            Population Studies                                                Multigenerational evaluation of globalization



            cohesion,  reduced  intimacy,  and  unstable  relationships.   Furthermore, the intercaste, interstate marriage is
            They also reflected that families are becoming increasingly   increasing more than before.” (ID_28/22/F)
            materialistic and that there is a decrease in communication   The apprehension toward engaging in a committed
            between parents and children due to social media use.  romantic relationship is clearly visible in Cont-G. They find
                “Earlier, people were very connected with families,   it difficult to trust their partner for fear of being exploited.
              were close to them, and had consistent contact with   Furthermore, the younger generation fears losing their
              all. The emotional bonding that family members have   independence and free will once they are in a relationship.
              with each other is decreasing. Everybody is restricting     “It seems that the younger generation has a fear of
              themselves to self and is having an individualistic   starting a romantic relationship. Especially in the
              attitude.” (ID_22/23/M)                            case of girls, they fear that they will be financially or
            3.6.3. Shift toward positive parenting               sexually exploited, which prevents them from entering
                                                                 a relationship.” (ID_25/23/M)
            Parenting has changed considerably in a positive direction
            over the past decades. Previously, parents were rigid,   The use of technology in partner selection is another
            focusing on discipline and obedience, which often instilled   important aspect where  generational variations can be
            fear in children. However, the transformation is now evident.   observed.  Participants  reported  that  online  matrimonial
            Cont-G feels that today’s parents lean toward an authoritative   platforms and dating apps are increasingly used to seek
                                                               potential  matches.  This  technology  interface  allows
            parenting style and provide space for discussion.
                                                               people to meet compatible people without geographical
                “Parenting has changed from the earlier ways.   limitations. Participants from both Pre-G and Trans-G also
              Nowadays, parents try to communicate openly with   reported that live-in relationships are gaining popularity
              their children. Now, it has evolved from obedience   and are used as a precursor to marriage to get to know
              to a friendly way of parenting. Before the parents,   each  other. They  also  opined  that homosexual/same-sex
              even though they loved their children, they were not   relationships are gaining more acceptance in India despite
              ready to express themselves. However, today, parents   strict social sanctions and discrimination.
              openly express their emotions to their children. They     “The trend of dating apps and matrimonial sites
              appreciate standing by their children.” (ID_21/22/M)  are increasing. People choose their partners from

            3.7. Changes in matrimonial arrangements and         these online platforms. Many romantic relationships
            partner selection                                    and marriages started from these applications.”
                                                                 (ID_26/25/F)
            The matrimonial process and how Indian young adults
            choose their partners have been a matter of curiosity for     “Young people prefer living together in relationships
            researchers,  evidenced  by  the  growing  body  of  research   nowadays over marriage. This might be the future
            on this topic. Our results clearly show that marital agency   aspect of marriage where the number of marriages
            and arrangements have varied over time. Participants   will be less.” (ID_10/67/F)
            reported that the age difference between partners has     “Homosexual relationships are increasing, and they
            shrunk significantly, and individuals can now decide when   are opening to society more. Even though homosexual
            and whom to marry. They also reported that it is no longer   marriages are not legal in India, it will become in the
            common for parents to force their daughters to marry   near future.” (ID_15/46/M)
            early. Individuals are also allowed to marry later in life,
            typically after they have completed their education and   3.8. Increased divorces
            achieved financial  stability. Compared  to earlier  times,   All three generations concur that the number of divorces
            the number of love marriages, inter-caste, and even inter-  has significantly increased recently, and they shared that
            religious marriages are becoming more common.      the value of the marriage institution has decreased. Even
                                                               though some educated and progressive people in Pre-G
                “Earlier in grandparents’ generation, the age gap   have begun to normalize divorce, both the Pre-G and
              between partners was 10 to 12 years; in our parents’   Trans-G are not happy about the increased divorce rate.
              generations, it was 4 to 8  years. However, in our   They view divorce as evil and still consider it taboo. They
              generation, this has decreased even more; some people   blame those who seek divorce for not having the ability to
              marry partners of the same age.” (ID_21/22/M)
                                                               make compromises or adjustments to maintain the family
                “The number of love marriages increased, and it has   in the long run. However, the Cont-G has shown a very
              become more acceptable than the previous generations.   positive attitude toward divorce. They have even stepped


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